Being a single parent raising two children is no easy task, especially when faced with the challenges of juggling work, parenting, and household chores.

As a mother to a teenage daughter and a younger son, I often found myself overwhelmed with the burden of responsibilities. Despite receiving some financial support from my ex-husband, it was clear that I needed to find a way to instill a sense of responsibility in my children, particularly my daughter.

At fifteen, my daughter seemed to be testing the limits of her newfound independence. She showed little interest in contributing to the household chores, refusing to clean, cook, or help with her brother. Feeling the weight of my increasing responsibilities, I knew it was time to teach her a valuable lesson in the importance of sharing the load within a family.

I sat my daughter down and had a heartfelt conversation with her. I explained that being part of a family meant shouldering responsibilities, especially during difficult times. I made it clear that if she continued to refuse to help, she would need to contribute financially, like paying rent. It was a bold move, a gamble to make her realize her role and responsibilities within the family.