It is a great advantage to have our relatives look after our children while we are busy with our jobs, especially when they do not charge us anything. However, is it fair to expect this help from our parents after all the conflicts we had with them?New message From: Rachel Subject: My daughter cut off all ties with me but then appeared and asked to babysit her kids My daughter Amy never cared about me since she turned 18. She excluded me from her life events, like her graduation, her engagement, and so on. So we barely talk to each other. She has two boys now and she recently reached out to me.
I was surprised and we had a conversation. After some time, Amy started to whine about how hard it was to raise her kids without any help. She asked me to babysit them on Saturdays and be a good grandparent. I told her that she had destroyed our bond a long time ago and I can’t take care of her kids now. She called me selfish and blocked me everywhere. Was I wrong to refuse to help my daughter with the kids after everything that happened between us? I would appreciate your input and your helpful advice.
